When child behavior becomes an issue, parents and teachers are resourcefully creating new tactics to combat the situation. In order to gain child cooperation in everything from making the bed to turning in homework, child behavior contracts are being used as an effective tool. Child behavior contracts can work in both homes and schools as a way to encourage positive behavior, while teaching children accountability for their actions. They stand as a written agreement between the child and their authorities, clearly stating what is expected of both parties, alleviating ambiguity, and motivating a positive response.
The key to any child behavior contract is they must be positive and able to acquire the child's cooperation. The theory is that other disciplinary actions do not work because the child is not on board. Child behavior contracts inspire children by allowing them to see the privileges and rewards that come with good behavior. While it is okay to outline a consequence for bad behavior in a child contract, the main focus of this agreement should be assisting the child in earning the things that are important to them.
Whether it be the privilege of participation in an after school sport, acquiring a new video game, playing at recess, earning an allowance, or extra time with friends, it is important to find out what the child desires from life. Next, in order to make effective use of a child contract, the parent or authority over the child must present it in a positive light that clearly explains to the child that the contract will help them achieve their desired rewards. Proper execution and follow through of child contracts will ensure child cooperation and positive behavior modifications.
